Steven Lake

Talk2me Steven Lake

talk2ME: How to communicate with women, tune-up your relationship, tone down the fights, dodge divorce, and have sex more than once a year. This book was written so that you can improve your ability to communicate with women and create change in your life. As the title suggests, the goal is to have a better relationship with your partner. When you have a better relationship you will notice that life is smoother, you are happier, and you are getting more and better sex. Does that sound like a goal worth pursuing? This book explains the differences between men and women, how we (men) became the way we are, how the change process works, and how to create a plan that will improve your communication skills with women. Of course, a game plan only works in relationship if you know what you want and what your partner wants. Once you have identified your strengths and weaknesses and figured out what women want around communication, then you are ready to learn the secrets of "advanced" communication. Learning that communication is about conveying information and evoking understanding gives you a head-start for improving your relationship. Building on this foundation, you discover what she really wants and learn to avoid emotional minefields. Furthermore, you will see that winning the argument often leads to harming the relationship and how this destructive habit is a result of our male conditioning. Finally, like any object of your desire (not that you should think of women as objects) ongoing maintenance is a necessity, not an option. In other words, love is not enough. Women want to be respected, appreciated, and shown love in regular and tangible ways. When you are able to communicate effectively and nurture the relationship, you will be amply rewarded.